Welcome to IYKYK Dating!


I’m coach Mel and I’m passionate about helping Christian Singles find the godly spouse of their dreams. I do this by connecting singles online through a free Facebook group (with over 7k people) and in-person speed dating & mixer events. 


In addition, I am a dating coach and I help single Christian women who feel anxious around dating to feel confident in who God made them to be, step into their true femininity, and understand the complexities around how men view love and romance while also learning how to effectively communicate with them in a way that draws them in. 

Mel is a Christian Dating Coach who helps Christian women who struggle with feeling anxious when it comes to dating. She shows women how to find freedom from the grips of stress, nervousness and worry so they can feel reassurance and mental clarity...and confidently attract (and keep) the Godly man of their dreams! 

Mel offers 1:1 Coaching, Group Coaching Courses and Virtual Dating Workshops to help you transform your dating life and attract the godly spouse of your dreams.

Online Community happens through our FREE Facebook Community of almost 7,000 single Christians from the USA, Canada and Missionaries overseas.

With thousands of people all over the globe interacting daily, it's almost guaranteed you'll meet your new crush in our group!

Spoiler alert, we've even had some engagements in our group!

Our in-person mixers and speed dating events are thoughtfully designed to create a safe, welcoming, and empowering space where you can connect with like-minded believers in your city.

Bonus, they are SO FUN!

UPCOMING MIXERS & SPEED DATING EVENTS

Join the IYKYK Christian Singles Mixer or Speed Dating—two fun, faith-filled events designed for Christian singles ages 23ish-39ish who love Jesus and want to meet like-minded people.

CHRISTIAN SINGLES MIXER

Feb 8 | Orange County, CA

IYKYK Dating Mixer | Ages 23-39 | 5:30-8:00

CHRISTIAN SINGLES MIXER

Feb 15 | San Diego, CA

IYKYK Dating Mixer | Ages 23-39 | 5:30-8:00

CHRISTIAN SINGLES MIXER

Feb 22 | Austin, TX

IYKYK Dating Mixer | Ages 23-39 | 5:30-8:00

CHRISTIAN SPEED DATING

Mar 11 | Dallas, TX

IYKYK Speed Dating | Ages 23-39 | 6:30-8:30

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