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👫 Upcoming Singles Mixers & Speed Dating across USA!!
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From our observation, singles within the church often experience feelings of loneliness, particularly as many of their peers have moved into the stage of marriage and starting families. While the value of community remains undeniable and transcends life stages, there's an inherent sense of isolation when you find yourself among few others in your age group who are also single. The significance of having fellow believers to relate to and share community with becomes especially apparent during periods of singleness.
We've discovered that organizing events tailored for singles not only offers opportunities to potentially find romantic partners but also fosters the development of meaningful, godly relationships within one's own city. It's been inspiring to witness numerous romantic connections and even marriages emerge from these gatherings.
By creating spaces where singles can connect, we aim to address the sense of disconnect and provide avenues for building supportive relationships that align with kingdom principles. These mixers serve as more than just opportunities for romantic pursuits; they're platforms for fostering genuine connections and strengthening the fabric of the church community.
One-on-one 3-5 min rotations with multiple Christian singles
A simple, discreet matching system—only match with people who are also interested in you
A room full of people who love Jesus and are open to finding a relationship
Nope! Just wear something that makes you feel confident!
We advertise these events as "Christian Speed Dating" and as a result, the majority (if not all attendees) tend to be fellow believers! While there is no way we can "vet out" everyone, we can confidently say from running dozens and dozens of these events that 99% of everyone who shows up genuinely loves the Lord and are looking for partners who do as well.
Speed Dating:
Some participants have found it helpful to bring a pen and a small notepad to jot down notes while meeting people, but this is completely optional. At the end of the evening, everyone will fill out a digital scorecard.
Mixer:
All Participants:
Please come prepared with 3 sticky notes, index cards, or small pieces of paper. On each one, write a fun, open-ended question (for example: What's your favorite food?, Where's your dream vacation spot?, or What are you most looking forward to this year?). We'll use these for a fun icebreaker game.
Men Only:
Bring 5–7 "flirty business cards." These can be as creative or simple as you’d like, just make sure each one includes your full name, email address, phone number, and any social media handles you’re comfortable sharing. Use small slips of paper, sticky notes, or index cards (whatever works for you!)
Speed Dating: Our matching process is simple and completely digital. When you purchase your ticket, you'll create a profile with a few photos and a short bio. After the event, you'll receive a digital scorecard displaying the names, photos, and bios of all participants of the opposite gender. You'll then select who you'd like to see again. If there's a mutual match, you'll be notified via email—and from there, it’s up to you!
Mixer: We encourage men to take initiative by expressing interest directly. If a man would like to get to know a woman better, he’s encouraged to confidently say so and ask if he can give her one of his flirty business cards. This allows women to feel safe, as they’re not required to give out personal contact information, while also empowering men to step into the role of the pursuer.
Speed Dating: You will have an opportunity to buy food/drinks at the venue. There is a 1 food item/drink minimum (does not have to be alcoholic)
Mixer: Charcuterie board & light drinks provided
All Events: We do not offer refunds, and all sales are final.
Mixers ONLY: If you’re unable to attend the event, you’re welcome to transfer your ticket to someone of the same gender
We’re always exploring new cities for upcoming events! If you'd like us to bring a speed dating event to your area, let us know by filling out our Interest Form: https://mailchi.mp/3fa85e376d0f/website. The more interest we get from a city, the sooner we can make it happen!
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Want a Speed Dating event in your city? Apply to be a host, and we’ll bring one to you!
This is a paid position requiring you to host once per month on a weekday evening (Mon-Thurs) from 5:45 PM - 8:45 PM. No additional work is needed—just show up and run the event!
If you're interested, email us at iykykdating@gmail.com with the subject line: "(City) Speed Dating Host Position." In your email, tell us why you'd make a great host and include a recent photo.
We are currently looking for hosts in the following cities: Washington, DC, Jacksonville, FL, Huntington Park (LA), CA, Greensboro, NC, Kansas City, MS, Miami, FL, San Jose, CA, Fresno, CA, Orlando, FL, Nashville, TN, Charlotte, NC, Oakland/San Francisco, CA, Rancho Cucamoga, CA, Colorado Springs, CO, Tampa, FL
We’d love to have you on board—apply today!